These might seem very bull, very very bull coming from a 23 year old who has no authority on this subject matter but I’ll go ahead anyway. These are just personal observations, and do not involve any kind of research whatsoever. Please don’t think I am sexist, I am just trying to be a male chauvinist pig.
Why do women end up liking some men? I mean a guy meets girl, why does the girl fall for him? Love happens? Ha! Even if you do agree, why does it? The way I look at it, you can break it down into a few categories.
They fall in love with the faults. Yes. Ever wondered why a dork of a guy has Ms. Universe for a girl friend? It’s because he has too many flaws. When there are so many flaws, there is a lot to work on. And when there is so much to work on, there is a lot of scope for improvement. And nothing keeps a woman more occupied than trying to point out his mistakes and working on them like her own. True love forever, because the flaws never cease to exist.
They don’t have a choice (read: Arranged Marriage). Your folks have found someone for you, what’s the best thing to do? Fall in love. Eloping happens in movies, arranged marriage is reality.
They fall for the money. I can already smell the fumes here. Most girls would rather die than to admit to this. It happens in movies, it happens in real life too. The best way for a girl to evade this fact is by letting her folks look for a rich little boy with a big pocket. Problem solved. You love the money, you love the man.
They like power. Power attracts women and more power attracts more women. (Now, I can sense some serious furor). Men in power like bosses, leaders, actors, local influencers, and even class prefects all attract women. Why? There is a huge potential for personal gain. Men in power also have a great tendency to have a great hold on the relationship. It saves work for the woman.
Power or Age?
Older age. Older men attract younger women. Well it’s the perceived sense of maturity among older men that probably attracts.
For want of better things to do. Bored? Need someone to pamper you silly why you take him out for a costly ride? Get a guy! Free rides, free candy, free movies, and a lot of attention. Guaranteed, and with immediate replacement warranty.
Bored? Get out of the library!
They think the guy is nice. No guy is nice. All men are lazy, materialistic, like sports, oogle at girls and only think of sex. If you were coned into believing, that the guy you like is nice, he has done a good job. ‘Nice’ includes all pretences of being caring, sensitive, mature, loving etc. (note: pretence).
Why men like women. Because they are HOT. Atleast we are honest about it.
Don’t lose heart, there are still nice guys out there and better reasons to fall in love with someone. What’s your reason?
PS: Verbal abuses allowed and encouraged. For low blows and cheap shots, i have protection already.
Gosh…….lol……heck of post man……
i guess u are gonna be blasted………they are gonna kill u……….
LOL- Very candid observations! This is how even I would mostly define love. And tho I’m a woman myself, I can’t agree with u more…That thing bout falling for flawed men so u have a lotta work to do is so damn true! How did u know this boy?!?!
Hehehe….”The guy is nice” point is straight and brilliant and
TRUE….
Whole day has passed and no flaming from girls yet??!!
Few things were put blatantly but I appreciate the way wrote them.
So, in which category are you falling
@pointblank: i am confused. you think i am a girl? HA! I am a guy!
@rohit: i am surprised myself, infact one girl has even appreciated the candid observations. LOL!
It was nice knowing you Vinni!
Wonder what kind of protection you are using for the cheap below the belt blows!
Best of Luck.
If you are still alive and reading this, let me know the general reaction!
I dunno about the post. But the photo of Padma Lakshmi made my day
hehe well written
i agree with a lot of those
but really men fall in love cuz women are ‘hot’?
wow..ru guys shallow or what
Why have u put the pic of a Maharashtrian wedding?? u have hurt the sentiments of lot of Maharashtrians !!!
better replace it with a Tamil wedding in progress!!!
hmm.. An MCP spending a lot of time to form opinions, observing women.. Interesting.. Yet concluding that no guy is nice.. Even more interesting
And a guy who believes that women fall for men for all the wrong reasons! How refreshing 
Oh a question though.. We now know the wrong reasons for liking men. Any inputs about the right reasons???
Another reason is submission. Ah..of the engineering kind..guys know how to handle a dot matrix better
Most of the reasons mentioned are true, in the sense one can see them happening around. But I’m sure there are a zillion other reasons, quite subtle, and various combinations of them, that make things work
aha… you’ll have a counter post on this soon !!
poli! a million thanks!
what are the right reasons? u should be telling me. you the girl, u should know better.
@shaifali, we are shallow! yes we are. but we accept it. we dont look for reasons like understanding, caring, good sense of humour. nope. we like them HOT. simple.
Vinni.. U know the wrong reasons.. Shouldn’t u know the right reasons as well? U the guy.. Why do u think girls should like you? Pretty rare for an MCP to be baffled to come up with one good reason for liking guys?
waise at this moment when u longing for cheap blows and comments from women, all u get is acceptance!!!
OUCH!!! didn’t that hurt mr MCP!!!
Oi vinni…
I am proud of your observations. Let me know if you survive. We might even drink to that.
lv
Ram
man, i am holding on. if i do survive, i promise to get u drunk by the bucket!
This must be the best post you have ever written..LOVED it! It is so very true–Finding it really hilarious.
As long we’ve established the fact that this is an MCP’s version, it as funny
Fellow snobbish-MCP!
Truth shall be told.
I will love you for this post.
P.S. I am an unpretentious “NICE” guy.
Absolutely true…..
Women also love men for all the chores they do for them….
U knw the free chauffer..Pick & Drops… Shopping partener….
hahah hilarious post..well i guess most of it is true coz i have seen most kinds….
But If its abt my opinion abt me then i have got to say: Ya money is needed to live in todays world, but all the rich men dont appeal to me, ya eloping wont work out so the arranged marraige thing is correct; Men in power do not attract me; nope to older men too yukkkk, well i am bored at times, but i hate being pampered too much,…just need the attention wen its needed like wen i am sick or need help..otherwise if my guys hangs around me i get all irritated…heheh…ya i know, i am a weird one
LOL! the MCP bit was just to let me get off with these blatant accusations easily. which so far has been happening.
@PS: Thanks! means a lot, u seem to say that for each post of mine these days.
@Prats: I covered that in ‘for want of better things to do’
@enigma: you are something.
First thing which came to mind was Mel Gibson of what women want..
Anyways.. I guess you have taken taken examples and come to conclusion or personal exp
may be also it takes care of all the scenarios except ur first assumption gal falls for the guy
ha ha… Its been a long while since I’ve enjoyed reading a post. This one is on the tops…!!!!
no brickbats? i am disappointed people.
hehe!!.. u jus proved that u r such a male chauvinist ;P
i loved the part where u wrote about the getting bored thingy.. thats awesome!
this totally ruins my chance of ever having a girl friend. LOL. I am loving this!
ha ha ha…
i married for his hotness coefficient… which was quite high. he married me for my low emotional quantum
lolzzz….. neat!!!!
firstly,one tight slap to u !
the underlying fact is that no matter for what reasons women like men,men have only one thing on their mind all the time,Hotness ,glam blah blah quotient
i know of all guys who blow trumpets saying they wont get married but when they touch 30 ,they start screaming saying i need a woman,so i shall see u 7 yrs down the line,wailing
dont temme then that some girl didnt “FALL in LOVE with you due to the above cited reasons ”
i will have the last laugh
is salman rushdie an idiot to not say yes to Padma Lakshmi? what was on that taklu’s mind ???
This is a highly controversial,insane,narrow view presented @ ur blog here.. I am planning to write one proper counter attack on this post soon
grrrrrrr(fuming now …)
Oh God Vinni!!!…one hell of a hillarious post… Well wouldnt agree with everything as it doesnt apply to all the girls…but there sure is a rare breed of girls who falls for everything you mentioned
meghna, i could not thank you more! LOL. and why does everyone think that the guy is wrong. what if padma had done something seriously wrong to hurt salman?
duh,he must have bored her !
hey,
i’m so glad somebody made a rational observation. gals might hate me for this each and every one of your reasons – TRUE!!
but i guess things are changing slow, like, i like only hot men !! period
Still alive?
well… I must say, I did laugh a lot at your post.
PS: Who’s the maharashtrian couple?
Regards,
Grondmaster
@sneha: u not the only one!
@grond: I am still alive and surprising kicking!
tat was a mean mean post, but guess wat, ihate to admit it, but ya obseravations are right..
low blows- man low blows come in the double entendre genre, i dun tink ya really need protection 4 tat
men only think of sex- yeh i agree, it’s universal..
if men are nice, they’re pretendin- how very true..
men pretend n women pretend they dun comprehend all thepretence..
wat a pretentious world…
and styll there is sumthing called love, hard to believe, yet true..
arggggghhhhh!!
how dare u go about stereotyping like that?
///No guy is nice. All men are lazy, materialistic, like sports, oogle at girls and only think of sex…///
okk now that was being HONEST!!
and i was just about to feel this post dint make sense…
that teeny weeny line there made soo much of it…*muhahahaha*
hmmm..quite a few generalizations u’ve made there..
all in all..u’ve given us girls more credit than we deserve for our ‘strategic thinking’..however, u’ve made the guys sound plain shallow and dumb..don be so hard on ur species vinni:)
What have you been drinking? This post is overly generalized and really shallow.
Its not about the amount of money someone has or how much in need of repair someone is, its how that someone makes you feel when you are with him. You dont enjoy the company coz he takes you on a bike ride or takes you the mall, you enjoy it because of him.
Its called falling in love, but how would you know about that, you are like you said, an MCP.
Lol..That was so honest and so true….anyone who denies it, should rethink strategies….loved this…
When PS had this link up on her profile, I actually wondered if it wa sthe stereotypical lines on this topic…but its nowhere near it…
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thanks to all the women, who have made this post a raging hit!
I don’t think this is male chauvinism. You don’t seem to think that men are superior than women, and your opinion seems unbiased and non-judgemental. Good job. Some other reasons that women might fall for men are: 1) women think men are hot! or 2) Good sex. Just being honest here. Atleast these are the initial things that both sexes find attractive in the other sex. But then people get attached and really enjoy each others company and just plain like each-other for none of the reasons given. Maybe it’s love, maybe it’s a chemical reaction in the brain…but it’s fun!
Loved your post.
very smart (smirk)
“For want of better things to do. Guaranteed, and with immediate replacement warranty.”
Loving it!! =)
sniff!! (I’m not crying… just got something in my eyes).
The article is something I’ll cherish for a long time… sniff sniff!! you’ve touched a soft corner somewhere in my heart (located a little below my left nipple where the tendering ceases).
I remember the days when I could blog so carefree and when the media was allowed freedom of thoughts. But after getting threatening calls in night and never a date, I decided to put my pen down and divert my thoughts to other events in the universe.
Ha ha ha..It is true Vineet!
)but bull as bang on target 
Might have been bull from a 23 year old (gosh–you looked a lot older!
nice post.
Cheers
preeti
ha ha…funny facts ab girls and boys..
I liked the blog and Padma Lakshmi’s pic
Awesome post man ! But you seriously may repel some women out there
no probs ajinkya. been there done that. now it does not make a difference!
Well… nice topic and esp I liked “PS: Verbal abuses allowed and encouraged. For low blows and cheap shots, i have protection already” This will automatically get femles Like u more.. lol;) well m writing this in a lighter mood .. so here it goes.. D basic difference betweent both parties are Men see and believe; women hear and believe.
1)Men scare away stray animals and stray people that your wives’/girlfriends’ don’t like, such as her ex-boyfriend from high school. 2) It’s the man who has to cut the head off a chicken for lunch 3). – Men can be stupidly entertaining. Kind of like a kitten playing with a ball of string. 4) – Without men, women couldn’t have babies, of which they can then get money from the men forever. Or at least until the baby turns 5)- Men are best at ensuring that their daughters don’t fall prey to a bad boyfriend. Namely by wielding a shotgun in front of the boy to warn him not to touch her inappropriately. Mom is just too nice to do these kinds of things. 6) – It’s the man who fixes the flat tire, the headlight, and really anything that needs to be fixed. 7) – He forgets your anniversary and then wildly over-compensates you. That is a good thing, right?
– He gives you money. 9) – He buys you a house. 10) – He buys you a car. 11)01 – He eventually dies and leaves you everything! 9) They have no choiice rather than to appreciate!
Lol! Enjoy!