This is something Simon, commented on to me previous post. I felt it deserve a post for its length (sorry, Simon! you do go on for long!) and relevance (that’s why its here)

Everything does have its phases. I used to think I would eventually reach a kind of plateau in life where everything would be sorted out. But now I realize that life isn’t like that. There are ‘good’ times and ‘bad’ times (and lots of in betweens!) and the phase you are in at the moment just happens to be, well, the phase you are in at the moment.
But ‘bad’ times do provide an opportunity for us to develop as people. Often, when things are going OK, you don’t have to try. It was when things got rough for me that I got into all the self-development stuff I write about in my blog. It has opened the door into a whole new area of life.

Chaos and uncertainty can be very unsettling – and we humans tend not to like them – but look at it this way: when everything is easy and sorted out, there is little opportunity for new possibilities or new opportunities to emerge. How can there be when everything is fixed? Out of chaos and uncertainty, though, that is where the real opportunities come. I hope you enjoy them!

You can check Simon’s blog here: Secret to Life

Ok ok! My blog has become very serious and just to cheer up the mood.